A glimpse of the progress

Seriously, with help like this I'm not sure why I didn't get the whole house packed 3 days ago already?

Although it does call to mind this little gem from one of our trips home from Kuala Lumpur:

anybody recognize that baby?? Where has the time gone?

Perhaps this is the route I need to go to minimize the "help" I am getting along the way:

I just need to install the gate and I could get my to-do list knocked out in no time! Movers are showing up bright and early tomorrow, either way! Maybe no one will notice if I stick Thing 1 and Thing 2 in a box?

Just wanted to check in quickly as we prepare to check out! See you on the other side~

Xin Nian Kuaile, 2013

Today is February 14th-Happy Valentine's Day! To celebrate, last night the kids and I made heart-shaped chocolate cookies with pink sprinkles. Will you come have one with us? Tonight Heinz and I will go out for dinner together. I hope I can stay awake to enjoy it. As today is also the 5th day of the Lunar New Year, the birthday of Zhao Gong Ming, 赵公明, a Taoist Deity considered to be the Martial God of Wealth, I was awoken at 5:37 a.m. to a 15 minute barrage of celebratory fireworks from the parking lot across the street from our house. It was pretty but really, don't you people ever sleep during Chinese New Year? Amazingly Heinz and the kids slept through! 2 hours later I can still hear a constant booming in the distance, even though it is raining.

Xin Nian Kuaile! Happy New Year! (again) 2013 - the Year of the Snake. 

Saturday night was New Year's Eve so at midnight Heinz and the kids and I dressed very warmly, as it was about 32 degrees F, and walked around our complex watching all of the beautiful fireworks by our neighbors, both inside our complex and out. When was the last time you wore a snowsuit to watch fireworks?

This month's Buzzy Bee Box has many crafts involving the Chinese New Year's theme. This project was titled "Fireworks".

Viola! Fireworks on the skyline!

The Red Packet or Envelope, Hong Bao, 红包, is used for holding money as gifts during auspicious occassions. This year Xiu, our Ayi, gave one to each of the kids. 

Each envelope had 66 RMB, about US$10.00. Vivienne's had a green 50 note plus a ten, while Conrad's had three brown 20RMB notes. 

Conrad, my little Scrooge McDuck, likes to take his money out and play with it. Eventually Vivienne came running up to me saying "Look Mommy! I have 36 RMB!" Even though green is her favorite color, somehow her brother had convinced her that she wanted to give him her 50 in trade for a brown 20. At least he's using his math skills! Apparently now we need to focus on hers. I am left to wonder what the God of Wealth would have thought of that little transaction? Perhaps when we move to Thailand the Kharma will catch up with him.

This banner stands in the main lobby of my friend's apartment complex, celebrating "the Spring Festival Party". (As always you can click on the picture to see a larger image)

Partnered with the Ox and the Rooster, the Snakes, "although fixed and rigid in opinions and views, are geniuses in the art of meticulous planning. They are hardworking, discreet, modest, industrious, charitable, loyal, punctual, philosophical, patient and good hearted individuals with high moral standards". (wikipedia.com) Perhaps that is the origin of the 'Guide the Community Culture' statement at the top of the banner. I cannot however, understand or explain the statement after it:

We have enjoyed seeing this year's decorations around town.

I believe the coins symbolized in the decoration below are called "I Ching" coins and are meant to be displayed or shared as a symbol of wealth and propserity, based on the Chinese characters stamped on their faces. Feng Shui dictates that such coins be arranged in prescribed combinations and hung on a red tassel in the "Wealth Sector" of your living quarters.

"Feng Shui", litreally translated as "Wind Water", is a cultural shorthand taken from a long-lost passage indicating that the all important "Qi", life energy or life force, "rides the wind and scatters, but is retained when encountering water". In case you are curious, fengshui.com describes the wealth sector of you home as being "derived from the House Birth Chart"....do you have yours handy?

In general the decorations are really fun to see. Interestingly, as the Lunar New Year and Easter are both tied to the phases of the Moon, often Chinese New Year coincides with Mardis Gras. Such is the case this year so I am left to wonder about the following item, which appeared in the grocery store about a week before the Lunar New Year. Perhaps these are meant to be Mardis Gras masks instead?

恭喜發財 (gōng xǐ fā cái) A happy and prosperous New Year to you all!

And may you always get more than you wish for! 年年有余 (nián nián yǒu yú)

Conrad is 6!

Can it be possible? Where does the time go?

 A couple of weeks before his birthday Conrad informed me that this year he wanted a jet plane cake. So I put on my thinking cap and began planning his party around that theme. Since the majority of his guest list was away for the Christmas holiday we decided to wait until after New Year and choose a date when all his friends could attend. 

Vivi and I got started preparing for the big day a few days before by making jet plane cookies for the guests to decorate. She is becoming quite the Betty Crocker, I must say! Or perhaps Betty Bossi, in honor of her Swiss roots~

 

 

Roll ‘n cut, roll ‘n cut!

After much planning and a few date changes, we were ready for the big day! Conrad’s friends arrived and we got the party rolling with a rousing game of “Musical Airplanes”! Adlan played DJ while everyone danced to Conrad’s song of Choice: Elvis Presley’s “A Little Less Conversation”. When the music stopped everyone raced to, instead of chairs, one of the jet planes taped to the living room floor. The Birthday Boy won that one!

Next everyone made and decorated paper airplanes for a series of very competitive airplane throwing challenges.

Lots of prizes were won in a number of different categories: landing your plane inside the fireplace, throwing it the farthest, landing it in the circle. It proved a bit frustrating for a few of the budding engineer, perfectionists in attendance, but I think overall they enjoyed it!

Having earned a break, the guests moved on to the cookie decorating. This was a big hit with everyone!

 

Everyone is very busy, working away at their masterpieces~

A finished product…seconds before it flies into Conrad’s mouth!

Colorful tongues! (It’s not Chinese food coloring, so hopefully it’s not toxic!)

We couldn’t deter Conrad from his presents any longer so we took a few moments to open gifts. Conrad was thrilled with the amount of Lego swag he took in! Then it was on to the final craft: candy airplanes.

Everyone decorated their pieces and then assembled their aircrafts.

A new piece of equipment for Her Majesty's Royal Air Force!

Do I detect Daddy’s hand behind the scenes on this one?

We had representatives of the RAF, the Swiss contingent and the USAF!

Time for the cake! Everyone gathers around and gets ready to sing.

All in all it was a crazy two hours: seven very excited 5-8 year-old boys and various siblings can certainly make a lot of noise! But as always, it was well worth it. I think a good time was had by all.

Happy Birthday Conrad!

Closing One Volume, Opening the Next

So much news, so many adventures awaiting us in 2013. Where to start? Perhaps with the next beginning, which in my head I keep thinking of as the ending of the middle.

My friend Dave is a professional "finder and teller of stories" (check out www.sparklestories.com). Last summer on his story page he posted a picture of Nanpu Bridge, on the west bank of the Huangpu River in Shanghai, as a generator to continue a story already started in a previous post. I recognized it immediately but it has taken me a while to find where exactly it fits in our life and how to use it to tell our story. This is our middle.

Known for it's minimization of land use, this ramp is known as a wonder in bridge construction.  Mile 2 to 3 of the Shanghai Half Marathon, one mile as the crow flies to Heinz's office on the other side of the river, connecting me to the Bund, The Old Shanghai Tea House, Marks and Spencer and various other attractions in the city, I have come to know it well myself. I remember the first time we drove it, feeling slightly nauseated as we wound around, wondering how often I would have to endure that!  

In December we passed the 2 year anniversary of our arrival in Shanghai. Some days it seems like we just got here. Others it seems as if we have been here forever. (And some days it seems we have been here way too long!) Either way I am still in a bit of disbelief at how quickly time passes and as we make the announcement that our time in China is coming to an end: in April we will relocate to Chiang Mai, Thailand.

Malaysia. China. Thailand. This is our middle. When I was younger I thought the world ended at the edge of Europe. Why would one ever go further than that? I described Asia as somewhere I would visit if someone gave me a trip. Well, 3 years ago someone sort of did. With six-month-old and 3 year old in tow, we packed our bags and headed to Kuala Lumpur for a six month assignment: Volume One. Fifteen months (fellow expats are very familiar with the manner in which the length of these postings grows), a blog site, an elephant ride and a car accident later, we headed for Shanghai: Volume Two. We've had so many challenges, struggles and adventures here, many chronicled in these pages, some scarring my psyche for years to come. Two and a half years later we will head on to Thailand: Volume Three. I think the elephant rides will make nice book ends

I'm an old hand at this expat thing now. In many ways I've mastered the curve of learning to live this life. Yes, each location has a curve of its own to be addressed but as far as the basics go, I feel confident about having developed the tools to make it work. But life in Shanghai is becoming unsustainable, mostly on a financial level. In the next 12 months staying here would probably require compromising on aspects of our daily life and comfort zone on which we simply do not want to compromise. The search for a solution began.

As Heinz's current business responsibilities require full time residence in Asia, the Shanghai conundrum could not be solved with a return to the States. Having lived all over, and having money in 401k's scattered about the globe, he has worked to keep abreast of the condition of the global economy. He reads extensively, often with an eye toward long-term solutions for retirement and along the way he came across some information on Chiang Mai. As per www.sovereignman.com, "Thailand is a place where you can base yourself, your business AND your family...your family is safe and snug, enjoying a wonderful life in a warm place while you are traveling to meet clients". More specifically, "Chiang Mai in the north has become a major expat hub, with cool mountain air and a massive international community". Tell us more, we thought to ourselves. Sounds like a lovely place to retire. In the meantime, what will we ever do about the Shanghai problem?

But our interest was piqued. This past December we decided to take a leap and a look and spent 10 days in Chiang Mai to see how the real thing stacked up to such accolades. And we found it to be all that and more. So we made the list of pros and cons of moving sooner rather than later. It showed us that every challenge we will face living in Shanghai within the next 12 months, and they are significant, can be solved with a relocation. In the end, the only reasons for staying put were emotional: we don't want to leave our friends here. The good news is that from Shanghai, Thailand is an easily accessible and highly desireable vacation destination so hopefully our friends here will visit us there. I have come to think of it not as saying good bye to our Shanghai friends, but as giving them a new place to visit. With accomodations included! (Did I mention there is no winter in Thailand? More on that in a future post.)

And so we are poised for a brave step into our future:

In the words of the wise Grace Stroh Simon, “Thailand is a very daring place”. Off we go! 

Come join us. We'll be waiting for you!

แล้วพบกันเร็ว ๆ นี้  (See you soon!)

I am Carol Brady

Conrad has caught the basketball bug.

I had already found a program here in Shanghai and decided to sign him up for January when he started telling me that he really wanted to play. I suspect this is the influence of his cousin Zachary!
Practices started this past Sunday.

Dribbling and shooting drills with coach Chen

 

His first scrimage 

He's really enjoying it so we decided to make the investment and buy a backboard. (A run of nice weather and 2 unexpected extra weeks of Christmas vacation highly influenced that decision!)

Poor little mule has to do all the heavy lifting. I'm such a mean mommy!

Higher! Reach!

The hard work pays off. Let's play!

The phrase I use most now has changed from "Stop jumping on the couch!" to "Don't play ball in the house!" Maybe next I'll get my own sitcom.
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You may remember at Christmas last year we had a little fun with the "Happy Shoes" doughnuts at Dunkin Donuts. I think they are preparing for Valentine's Day. The DD in our local shopping center has now started selling gourmet chocolates. You can put 4 in this decorator box to give as a gift:

"You should let me love you live

you everything you want

and need Baby good love

and Protection"

And then you can fill it with the usual boring old chocolate creme filled, green tea flavored, or this little gem for 8 RMB (about $1.40) a piece.

And then again, maybe not.

'Baby good love and Protection' to you!

Meanwhile, on the Other Side of the World...

It is 7,351 miles from Dallas, Texas to Shanghai, China. In my 12 years living in Dallas, I did learn that yes, there are some things that are bigger in Texas: hair (although to be fair, it was the 90's), trucks, hats. Which came first? The Texas Tumbler or the 40 ounce glass with free refills of soda -sorry, I'm showing my northeastern roots, I mean "pop"- at lunch time? Certainly there is one things that countless lunches at LaHacienda on Preston Road in Frisco taught me: The salsa bowl should be Texas sized!

Today we checked out the new Peter's Tex-Mex in Jinqiao. There are a few other branches in other parts of town, so I figure they would know what they are doing by now. It was early in the day so we were the first ones there. We sat down and perused the menu. After finding something that the-children-who-only-eat-white-food would actually eat, we decided to order. Eventually the waitress brought our drinks and a bowl of chips. She reassured us that no, we did not need to order salsa separately, it would be provided shortly. Imagine our surprise when this arrived:

Wait, let's get a hand in there so we can see some scale. I was afraid the chip wasn't even going to fit in the bowl!

Hey Vivi, get your Barbie! The waitress just brought her a bowl of salsa! I wish I could have seen our faces when that thing arrived at the table. I think we scared the waitress. I laughed so hard I nearly wet myself! 

I think it is safe to say  that Texas' title is safe: things may be cheaper in Shanghai but they certainly aren't very big! At least I got my Dr. Pepper fix.

Just for fun, we'll close with this one. I followed this woman around Carrefour for about 15 minutes before I was able to get this picture. I'm trying to imagine what was going through her head as she stood at the front door and grabbed her keys: "You know, my purple plaid bunny slippers actually match this purple coat. I think I'll leave them on when I go buy groceries."

 I'd lay big bucks she wasn't the only one in slippers in Carrefour that day. Only in China.

Happy New Year to you all~